In the post-Edwardian era of the early 1900s, the fictional Yorkshire country estate of Downton Abbey grows and evolves with major global events like World War I, the Spanish influenza outbreak, and the Irish independence movement. Amidst the rise and fall of the British aristocracy lie the lives of the Crawley family, and their regal experience of the world.
Created by Julian Fellowes, this epic period drama is widely celebrated for its nuanced yet juicy storytelling, with stalwarts like Maggie Smith, Hugh Bonneville, Jessica Brown Findlay, and an ensemble cast. It has close to 200 award nominations in its run of six seasons, five Christmas specials, and three movies, sweeping Golden Globes, SAG Awards, and Primetime Emmys.
So it's safe to say Downton Abbey has some incredible moments, both funny and tender, capturing the wit and charm of the memorable characters.
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Violet's enquiry, Lady Sybil's tragic demise, and other best moments in Downton Abbey
1) What is a weekend?
Series 1, episode 2

Early in the series, as fans are still getting used to the glamorous life in Downton Abbey, Matthew's common man eyes become a compass. When he moves into the Crawley house with his mother, Isobel, the culture shock is instant. At a dinner with Lady Mary, the Dowager Countess Violet Crawley, Robert Crawley, and others, Matthew mentions starting a new job.
Robert interjects, reminding Matthew that his duty is to run the estate. When Matthew shrugs it off, saying there's plenty of time on the weekends, the Dowager Countess asks, genuinely confused in the silence that follows:
"What is a weekend?"
The question cuts through the tense moment with its blank delivery and establishes just how little the aristocrats know about the outside world. It highlights the class difference (only those employed in laborious tasks sectioned the week that way) in a subtle yet funny way.
2) Tom's proposal to Sybil
Series 2, episode 6

Some of the best moments in Downton Abbey are between Sybil and Tom. Sybil Crawley's rebellious streak breaks all shackles of aristocratic society, fitting with Tom's socialist nature. Sparks flow instantly, but their different social standing keeps them apart for a long time. Big world events like World War I play a key role as well.
Their will-they-won't-they romance comes to a head when Tom asks Sybil to run away with him. After a while, Sybil asks if he would wait till the war is over.
"I will wait forever," Tom says.
His tender response sums up their love and respect for each other. While it's a passing dialogue, it has stuck with fans even years later, reminding them of a yearning so perfectly executed.
3) A house of ill repute
Series 6, episode 8

The flowery language of Downton Abbey often leads to hilarious one-liners. One of the best responses is when a sergeant approaches Mrs. Patmore and informs her that her Bed and Breakfast is the hotbed of a scandalous affair, leading to its plummeting reputation. He tells her that it is a "house of ill repute." Mrs. Patmore almost faints and squeakily repeats the line, instantly becoming a hit meme.
While this scene is hilarious, what follows is immediately heartwarming. The Crawleys rally behind Mrs. Patmore in an attempt to save her reputation. They visit her inn to save it from financial ruin. When Cora pushes Mrs. Patmore to the front so she can stand tall and proud for the photo op, fans can't help but feel the sense of community.
4) Mary and Matthew's first meeting
Series 1, episode 2

This beloved romance gets off on the wrong foot, but that makes Mary and Matthew's story all the more heartwarming. Dazed with being waited on hand and foot, Matthew snaps at Isobel that the Crawleys might push one of their daughters at him. At this exact moment, Lady Mary Crawley walks in. She invites them to dinner and refuses tea, letting them know that she had heard the comment.
The contrast between her whipsmart remark and Matthew's dumbfoundedness in this scene sets up their legendary love story. The chemistry is instant, and Mary changes her mind about Matthew after his consistent kindness, respect, and friendship.
It is the prelude to some of the best moments on the show, from the words left unspoken at the train station when Matthew leaves during in World War I to their snow-filled, magical marriage proposal.
5) Lady Sybil's death
Series 3, episode 5

Lady Sybil's screen presence is undeniable for three seasons of Downton Abbey. Her headstrong values and the dauntlessness to go against the grain and marry the family chauffer, Tom, speaks volumes of her character. Fans are thrilled when Sybil and Tom are on the way to parenthood, but the happiness is short-lived.
Complications from childbirth leave Sybil in mortal danger, and the scene's powerful essence is captured by actress Jessica Brown-Findlay's pale-faced acting prowess. Her final breaths come in heaves as Tom sobs near her. Not only is it one of the biggest twists on the show, it also marks the end of a sweeping love story. This moment is a reminder of life's fragility.
6) Robert is grateful that Bates saved his life
The Grand Finale

The friendship between Robert Crawley and John Bates underscores one of the main themes of the show: Fierce loyalty amidst trials and tribulations. They go through class differences throughout the years, but their friendship forges on. In the final movie that brings their story to a close, a moment between Robert and Bates stands out.
Robert tells Bates that he often thinks about how he saved his life while serving side-by-side. It is a moment of gratitude and a nostalgic hat-tip to everything the two friends had been through, making it a fitting moment in the show's farewell tour. No matter what happens, Robert would not forget Bates' impact in his life.
7) Edith and Robert's father-daughter moment
Series 6, episode 9

Lady Edith Crawley's love life is nothing short of tumultuous. After being left at the altar in season 3, she finally finds her happy ending with Bertie. But amidst the chaos of a wedding, she shares a tender moment with her father, Robert, where he tells her he is proud of her.
This is an emotional moment for the father-daughter duo, because for years, their relationship had been testy. Earlier, Robert didn't understand Edith, who was in every way the forgotten middle child. But their relationship gradually improves, and Robert goes from being indifferent to her passions to her number one cheerleader. This moment in series 6 cements just how close they had become over the years.
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